Mums and Bubs
Parents may be taken by surprise if their cute little one suddenly displays uncontrollable tantrums. They may be at a loss on how to deal with baby tantrums when it suddenly happens. Babies may be adorable and parents are just too happy to care and to nurture them but once they get into tantrums, parents may feel frustrated and stressed as well. However, understanding their babies and their tantrum tendencies may help them on how to deal with baby tantrums effectively.
Babies may not yet understand why they suddenly throw themselves into a fit of uncontrollable emotions. They may not be able to express their frustrations or the stress that they are feeling and these sudden outbursts become their way of telling parents what exactly it is that they are feeling. Though it is quite difficult to remove the stressor or the reason for the frustration before it sinks in, parents may take some cue from the behavior of their babies. It would be better if they can take their babies’ attention from it so they do not have to display tantrums.
However, parents should understand what their babies want though they cannot verbalize it yet. Sometimes, they may simply want to reach something. Though parents are not supposed to give it right away in order for the babies to learn doing it for themselves; they can encourage and help them reach for it. Babies need naps and frequent feeding. They may not be able to tell their parents that they are hungry or that they are sleepy. It is up to them to know what their babies need.
By the time the babies reach one year of their lives, tantrums may start. This is usually the time when parents would start to keep saying the familiar word “no.” However, this might not be the best way to instill the discipline that is needed by children. It is important that their needs including their curiosity are satisfied. Parents have to see to it though that they allow their small children to explore their environment safely.
Babies need to learn what they can do and what they cannot do. Screaming and yelling at babies will only make matters worse. Parents need to be calm and deal with the baby tantrums patiently. Organizing the babies’ life such as daily routines and activities will help reduce their frustrations and stress in life. Babies become more responsive if they know the next activity or thing that they have to do. Parents likewise may not miss nap time or feeding time and this will lessen the problem as well. Parents may not have too much problem with how to deal with baby tantrums each passing day if they are able to keep their babies happy and contented most of the time.
